Wednesday, October 28, 2009

This is the end of this trip, but not the end of the road...


So finally my journey has come to an end... The past two weeks have gone by so unbelievably fast.  I appreciate all that I have been able to do and I feel that MaryAnne and I have made the absolute best use of our time here. As I think about leaving, I am overcome with emotions knowing that I am coming back to my beautiful college campus, my very own house where I live with my family, and even a car that I have to drive around. At the same time, I am leaving here the children who walk miles to get to their one room schoolhouse each day with very few supplies and no electricity.  Then they walk home in the thick mud to their grass huts where they will then go to work to support their families.  I have never before realized how truly lucky I am. 

         I have formed some very special relationships with the people that I have met here.  I don’t even think they realize the impact that they have each made on my life.  It makes me sad not knowing if or when I will see these individuals again, but I will continue to keep in contact with them so that the relationships continue to grow. 

         Just because this short trip is over, does not mean I am through with the issues of poverty in Cambodia. It is actually just the beginning for me. I have since developed a passion for these people and even though I am only a single person, I would love to help better the lives of people here in any way that I can. When I return, I will work very hard to create my video documentary with the footage that I have retrieved the past two weeks.  When I share my video with others my hope is to create a better understanding of what life is like here and engage each person to want to make a difference as well. I plan to use my video as a marketing tool to help raise funds for the many needs of the schools and the clinic here.  I feel that as a college student it is the perfect time to explore internationally to better understand different cultures and ways of life.  It is the perfect time to get my peers and others involved with an issue of great importance; and it is the perfect time to make a difference in the lives of others. 

         Once again, thank you to all who made this experience possible.  I look forward to my return so that I can share the many stories I have.  And thank you for following along on my journey…

 

                                                      Until next time,

                                                               Brittany Decker

 

 

 

Day 13: Pagoda


Today was my last full day here in Cambodia.  This morning MaryAnne and I ran a few final errands and took a ride one more time around Phnom Penh.  Then Narith took us to go see a Pagoda. A Pagoda is a religious building where the people of Cambodia go to practice Buddhism.  Nearly 99% of the people of Cambodia are Buddhist. It was a very beautiful and ornamental structure.  Inside there was a massive statue of Buddha and the walls were decorated with detailed pictures that told stories of the religion and how it came about. MaryAnne and I had quite a long conversation with a monk that told us about the Pagoda and about their religion.  He also told us that around 700-800 kids from the Providences live there so that they can go to school in the city.  To pay for the building and the housing of these students and the additional 150 monks, the monks walk the streets each day to ask shop owners for donations.  People always give money because they highly respect the monks- they are a symbol of the religion. It was really interesting to learn another aspect of the Cambodian culture.

  

Tuesday, October 27, 2009

Day 12: RDI


Today MaryAnne and I went to Resource Development International (RDI).  It is there where people work to make water filters. A man named John, originally from Kentucky, gave us a tour of the facility. I was able to see the entire process of the filters being made and I learned a lot about the importance of families having a water filter in their home.  When John began working here, the statistics showed that 1 in 5 babies died before the age of 5 years old because of diseases from drinking the Mekong River.  Now it is 1 in 12 babies, which is better but still a very high rate. I learned that mothers do not even name their babies at birth.  They wait a couple of months because it is a high possibility that the baby will not survive. These water filters cost $10 each, which may not seem like a very high price to us especially because this is an item of necessity.  However to the families living in the Provinces- in villages like Phum Thom, this is not an affordable price.  MaryAnne hopes that someday in the near future she can help to get water filters to more of these people.

            At RDI I was able to see a small TV studio that they had as well.  In this studio they film a TV show called New World that is comparable to Sesame Street in the U.S. It was great to see the set and the way they went about filming and editing here.  Also at RDI I saw the biggest pigs that I have ever seen! I have always wanted a pet pig, but I don’t think my parents would appreciate having one this size. 

          

  This afternoon MaryAnne and I had a little bit of down time. It was hot and sunny outside so we went for a swim at our hotel.  I was able to get some reading done as well, which is always relaxing. I started another of one of the many books I purchased here about the Khmer Rouge.            

 Tonight MaryAnne and I went out to dinner with Arun and Shenda at the Khmer Surin.  Arun and Shenda help to organize the money MaryAnne gives to the clinic and orphans in Phum Thom. Shenda is also Narith’s daughter and she is very nice! We had a great dinner together.  

Monday, October 26, 2009

Day 11: Busy Day :)


Today was a very busy day! This morning we left bright and early to go to the Russian market.  I bought many unique gifts to bring back with me that I am very excited about.  After we left the market, Narith took us to the corner of a street where his wife works selling clothes.  It was so wonderful to meet her and MaryAnne and I both purchased some clothing to support their family.  We also went to this shop where people with disabilities make everything in the store.  It was nice to support a great cause and also purchase gifts there as well.

            MaryAnne had a Rotary Club meeting that she attended during lunchtime.  Instead of attending the meeting with her, Narith and I spent a few hours together.  He drove me around the city to a few places where I wanted to capture video including: the King’s palace, the Prime Minister’s mansion that he built for his father, and many other statues and monuments.  Then Narith and I went to lunch at this restaurant along the Mekong River.  As we were eating, I once again saw the children walking around selling books and begging for money.  I went up to them this time to ask for a picture with them.  I also gave them each a few dollars and they were very excited. Narith gave the children his shoes to shine as well. It is very sad to see these children on the streets instead of in school on a Monday afternoon. 

            During our conversation at lunch I asked Narith to tell me where he was during the time of the Khmer Rouge in the 1970s.  He told me that he was 18 years old then and he was sent to work in the rice fields.  He showed me a huge scar on his leg of when a soldier hit him with a piece of wood because he was not feeling well one day and could not work.  He was in the hospital for months.  But worst of all, Narith lost his father and two brothers in 1977 because of this tragedy in Cambodia.  They all died from starvation.  It was very sad to hear Narith talk about what he went through during this time.  Nearly each and every person in Cambodia still has a story of what happened about 30 years ago.

              At around 1:30, we picked MaryAnne up from where her meeting was held.  Our next stop was meeting Dara and Kim-Ann at the eyeglasses store.  Kim-Ann is one of the teachers in a school MaryAnne oversees and our goal today was to buy her glasses because she has very poor vision.  Kim-Ann lives in a squatter community and is a single mother with six children that she has to care for.  The other night at the Teachers celebration she even took with her all of the leftovers from our dinner so that she could feed her children.  She works very hard at her job and is a very kind person.  I am very glad we were able to see an eye doctor and get her a pair of glasses.

              Finally today we met with Pov, a college student here who is my age.  Pov teaches English to orphans, so today we helped him to buy supplies for his students.  We bought 65 notebooks, pencils, sharpeners, books, flashcards, and dictionaries.  We also got him a briefcase.  MaryAnne also plans to give him money to purchase a laptop.  Pov was very appreciative.  I am so happy I was able to meet him! 

            Also, today I purchased for myself an English-Khmer dictionary.  I practiced the Khmer language all day with Narith and also with Pov. They corrected me whenever I pronounced a word wrong- It was so much fun!  I would love to someday learn the Khmer language so I could come back here and understand what people around me are saying and be able to have conversations with them.

            Today was a very productive and accomplished day.

Day 10: Church, Many new friends

This morning an old friend of MaryAnne’s, Cornelia, met us at our hotel to have breakfast.  Cornelia is a surgeon at Hope Hospital here in Phnom Penh, which is a medical center dedicated to providing free health care to adults.  Over breakfast she told us a bit about the hospital and how busy it was. So busy in fact that many times they must turn down patients.  Right now, Hope Hospital is celebrating its 1 million-th patient.  That is absolutely incredible.

After breakfast MaryAnne, Cornelia, and I went to church down the street.  The mass was very interesting.   We were given headphones because somebody translated the service for us in English.  There was music with drums, guitars, singing, and everybody was clapping their hands to the beat.  It was also neat because we got to see three baptisms today where each person went into this huge barrel of water and held under water for a second.  Everybody crowded around cheering and clapping.

The greatest thing about going to the mass today was all of the people I had the opportunity to meet and learn about.  I met this one man named Sutton.  He told me how he was a pediatrician living in a million dollar home overlooking the water in Orange County, California.  Recently him and his family gave up everything they had and moved to Cambodia to help out here.  I met this one woman named Jennifer who is the Priest’s wife.  She was a very nice lady who also moved here for a period of time to do missionary work.  I also met a girl who is about 23 years old named Rachel.  Rachel grew up in Boston and recently moved here by herself to open her own small shop where women who have HIV/AIDS work.  I met a doctor and his wife from Massachusetts as well.  MaryAnne and I went to lunch with this group of people.  I learned a lot through speaking with Cornelia, Jennifer, and Rachel.  We had a very nice conversation while we ate.  I really feel that it is so important to meet people and to network everywhere I go.  I hope to keep in contact with these wonderful people I met today.

Saturday, October 24, 2009

Day 9: Girl Guide Promise Ceremony/ Medical Clinic

 

Each day I think to myself that it is impossible for living conditions to get any worse for the people of Cambodia.  Today I saw poverty at its absolute worst state imaginable.      


This morning MaryAnne and I left our hotel at 6am when the Commissioner of Girl Guides picked us up.  Our destination today was Phum Thom, a small village about two and a half hours from Phnom Penh.  To get there we had to take a ferry to across the Mekong River because there are no roads yet connecting the communities on the other side.  Next we drove down this very, very long muddy road.  This road was filled with massive holes and the mud was extremely slippery.  We were driving in a big truck and our vehicle still fishtailed many times.  Others on this road were driving motos or animal-drawn carriages and they had a more difficult time getting through the mud.  I saw many people fall off their motos and become covered in mud.  As we reached the villages, the mud roads continued and I began to see more of the awful conditions for people living here.  It was honestly like a whole different world or back in time centuries ago when civilization was just beginning to form.  These people lived in small huts made of grass, leaves and sticks that were many times elevated on posts to keep from the flooding of the river.  People here use the Mekong River for everything- bathing, washing clothes and dishes, drinking and for every use imaginable. The trash and wastes from these people end up in the river. The water was a dark brown color and very dirty. People here farm, fish, and work in the rice fields to obtain their food.  There is no electricity, shops, or restrooms anywhere in the villages. Cars do not typically pass through the streets- today the people starred as our big truck passed by their homes.  Many were shocked as they saw me looking out the back window because they have probably never seen an American before. Dogs and cows rested in streets not wanting to be disturbed and chickens and roosters walked casually across the street.  I noticed many young children as I drove by these villages.  Many were unattended and playing outside without any clothes on. 


We finally reached the location where the Promise Ceremony was to be taken place.  Girl Guides are equivalent to what we all know as Girl Scouts in the U.S.  Some goals for these girls include: learning a variety of different skills, participating in community service, and protecting themselves-especially from human trafficking. There were 105 girls at the ceremony today and each were there to make a commitment to become leaders in their community as a Girl Guide.  It was so wonderful to see that even in the conditions these girls lived in, they still set goals for themselves to succeed.  MaryAnne and I each received a Girl Guides of Cambodia uniform and bandana as well making us official Girl Guides! We helped to give each girl her bandana and pins for her shirt.  Towards the end of the ceremony we handed each girl the gift bags we made for them.  They were very excited with the hair accessories and the WNEC stuffed animal that was inside the bag.  They also were very interested with their dental kits.  I noticed the children looking confused with the dental floss; not understanding it’s use.  It made their day to just receive those small items. 



MaryAnne funded the ceremony and it was very well put together.  The girls sang and one young girl spoke.  There were other speeches from the Commissioner of Girls Guides, MaryAnne, and the Village Leader congratulating them on their accomplishment.  I really enjoyed capturing video of this event and being able to interact with the girls as well.


After the ceremony we walked to the nearby medical clinic that MaryAnne and the Grinspoon Foundation built and provide funding for sustaining.  It is called the Sok Sabay Clinic and it opened in October of 2006. The commune is comprised of about 26,000 people in six small villages and there is are no other health clinics close by.  The orgional plan for the clinic was to service a maximum of 300 patients a month.  However, in less than a year the patient load grew to 1,800 patients a month.  Many people get very sick from drinking the filthy river water.  Just this past year, the clinic was enlarged to better care for mothers and children.  Before the clinic was established, mothers would have their babies outside of their homes or in the fields.  Now about 40 women a month come in to deliver their babies.  Today I was able to see five mothers with their newborn babies- all boys! They were so tiny and adorable- what an incredible site to see! I learned one baby that was delivered today had something seriously wrong with his stomach swelling.  The mother and baby had to be brought to Phnom Penh to try and save the baby.  However, to get there they need to take a boat (not even a speed boat), which will take a very long time. Visiting the clinic today allowed me to see tremendous impact it has on this society. 

 


I have never before realized just how lucky I am to be living life in my shoes.  Feelings of guilt came over me as I was leaving that village to go back to my luxury hotel room with electricity, a bed, and a bathroom.  I have so much that I take for granted everyday of my life without even realizing it. The people living in the villages were smiling and satisfied with what they had.  These people do not know any different because this is how they have lived their entire lives.  Yet seeing how they lived will affect me for the rest of my life and allow me to appreciate everything I have so much more.  This is something that is very important for everybody to learn...  Hopefully the video I create will help to open the eyes of others to think the same way.

            



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Friday, October 23, 2009

Day 8: Visiting the Schools :)

Today MaryAnne, Dara, And I went to visit the five schools in the villages outside of Phnom Penh.  The schools are no larger than a single classroom.  The children only go to school for two hours a day and there is a rotating schedule so that all 100 children that attend each school can be given time to learn each day.  It was unbelievable to see first hand the living conditions for people who live in these areas.  The dirt roads are lined with potholes that could be a foot deep and filled with water from the rain.  I saw many of the grass huts, shacks, and tents that people lived in.  I also saw many babies and very young children with no clothes on that walked around on the street and played in the mud.  Women were washing their clothes outside with a small bucket of water. Without the support of the Harold Grinspoon Foundation, there would be no chance for these children to receive an education.


When our car drove into the village, many children on the street ran behind the vehicle in excitement to see us.  The school houses were very small inside.  Only the sun provided the lighting for the room and there were no outlets for a fan, despite the very hot weather.  As the children entered the classroom they went up to the teacher to bow before taking their seat.  Dara guided the students to greet us in English.  In unison, the children said “Good morning, Brittany and Good morning MaryAnne.”  Today was like a holiday for the students because they each received a backpack, school uniform, books, a pencil, and a sharpener from the funding of the Grinspoon Foundation.  They were very excited as they looked at all of their school supplies. The students seemed very happy to be in school. 


 of the schoolhouse, many children gathered around me. They attempted to use their English by asking what my name was and my age.  They were all fascinated with my video camera. An entire group of them looked at the video screen laughing while another child went on the other side of the lens to be taped.  Those same children followed us as we walked around the area.  I had a great time playing with the kids!


It is clear to me that the children of Cambodia have a special appreciation for learning and going to school.  This was apparent through the respect the children had for the teacher and the smiles on their faces while just sitting at the tables ready to learn.  Every student raised their hand when MaryAnne asked if they wanted to go to secondary school.  Her hope is to be sure each child will be able to receive money to allow them to have this opportunity.